I have been in Australia a total of six days and it has made me realise just how much communities in the UK struggle to refer to the word ‘suicide.’ For example, many health professionals are anxious to ask their patients if they feel suicidal in case they say yes! Families are often afraid to say the ‘S’ word in case it plants this seed into the person they are worrying about. If we are afraid to ask, or even say the word – how must the suicidal feel? I don’t want to state the obvious but people who are feeling suicidal are not also stupid! They are aware that often they are almost forbidden to say the word or make this disclosure. Many of those who participate in my research describe the sense of helplessness when they see the fear in other people’s faces, especially if it is a health professional. Our communities in the UK are hardly conducive for people to talk openly about these frightening and often overwhelming emotions and seek help.
Australia is effectively tackling this extremely sensitive issue head on. Respect to them for daring to address it. They use all mediums to relay the message about mental health, suicide, risk and support to the general population. I am guessing that it must be a Government initiative, but I have yet to confirm this. I personally think the National Suicide Prevention Strategy for England should consider adopting a similar approach.
Must admit when I first arrived in Australia it was a bit of a shock. Now that might come as a surprise as I work in this field. Initially it seemed a bit much when I am sat in McDonald’s and numerous adverts where on the TV during the 30 minutes I was sat there, talking about mental health, suicide, suicide rates, where to seek help etc. I have travelled through two states during the past week and thus, listened to numerous radio stations. They are also openly talking about mental ill health, suicide, suicidal ideation, where to seek help in their advertisements. The most interesting thing is after a couple of days of being exposed to this repeated message about suicide and where to seek help, I no longer notice it anymore. This is my point. It had become normal to hear this message. However, I would argue that it sends the following message to those who are feeling suicidal
i) that they are not alone; and
ii) that their community cares about them.
The suicide rate in the UK has increased. We need to think of innovative ways in which we can care for and engage with those who are suicidal, break the taboo and fear of talking about suicide within our communities – almost think outside the box. I am learning that Australia is daring to do just that.
Break the taboo. The “S” word continues to the biggest killer of males under 35 years yet no one knows till it happens to them.
Hi Shirley, you are so right. They are really trying to tackle this problem in Australia. The UK could learn so much from this Country. Can’t wait to tell you all about it when I come home.
Sharon,
I’m loving this new blog! It’s great to follow your journey in Australia. And you’re right about Suicide still being taboo in the UK.
I’m going to share this on my Facebook page.
Awww Emma, so good to hear from you. Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. It means a lot as I really value your opinion. To be honest I was unsure if I should write a blog as a person bereaved by suicide/researcher. However, I am absolutely thrilled with the response as over 700 people have viewed it within the first week. I would really appreciate it if you could share it on your facebook page.
I had a meeting with some people who some ex journalists in Melbourne the other day. They are really interested in the work we will be doing together.
On a different note, the suicide bereavement conference in Manchester will be on 23rd September. Speak soon, Sharon
That’s a brilliant result!
And I’m excited to hear about the ex journalists in Melbourne. That’s really positive.
The date’s in my diary.
Oh Emma, I am learning loads over here, it is so exciting. Can’t wait to meet up. I have loads to tell you. I am thrilled that you are able to attend the conference in September. Take care, Sharon x